Email Contribution: “I have always hated my huge lips. I feel like they’re way too big and it just doesn’t look girly at all. I’m always afraid of people going down on me because I feel like they’re going to think it looks disgusting. I have been looking into labiaplasty a lot recently and honestly I think I’m considering it. Does it look ‘normal’?”
Thanks for writing. I’m so glad you did. Your lips could not look any more normal! They are a very common size and shape and thickness and colour. They are so normal that they are almost boring. Almost. As if a gorgeous pussy like yours could ever be boring lol.
When you say they don’t look girly do you mean they don’t look pre-pubescent? Because your labia look like those belonging to someone who is physically and sexually mature and not like a 10 year old. Seriously where did you get that idea from?
The thing is, labia are supposed to come in different sizes and shapes. They are supposed to have diverse appearances. It’s part of what makes us women. Labia are smooth, and wrinkly, and thin, and thick, long, short, wide, shaped like petals and butterfly wings, and different lengths from each other (like mine), and pink and brown and purple and black. They are some of the most diverse parts of the body, and while we all have the same basic bits, every woman is unique. The notion that labia should be small pink innies is pretty ridiculous. It’s like saying eyes should all be blue, and any other colour is hideous, deformed, abnormal and to be ashamed of. That’s just insane.
Oh and in my opinion, for the record, yours are far from disgusting, and in fact they are very beautiful! And anyone with a brain in their head, and lucky enough to be allowed anywhere near your vulva will adore them. Why? Because they look amazing.
Please stop thinking about labiaplasty. That is such a bad bad bad idea. You would be robbing yourself of a tremendous gift. Let me ask you, are your orgasms great? Do you cum easily? Do they feel good to the touch? Labia are packed with nerve endings designed for sexual simulation. Cut them off and, well it’s bye bye to all that sensation. Plus it is expensive, painful, prone to infection, results aren’t guaranteed, and all you’re doing is buying into a lie being perpetuated by the female genital cosmetic surgery industry. I say industry because it’s all about money. How do you think these surgeons afford their bmw’s? By preying on insecure girls who don’t understand that they really are normal! Most plastic surgeons admit that the labia they cut off are normal, but they base the decision to cut on the woman’s desire to have them removed as opposed to a genuine need, and they don’t try to correct that view because all they see is $$$$. It’s obscene! You may have gathered I am not really pro-labiaplasty lol.
So what research have you done? On my site, in the Labia Resources section there is a link to a document that every girl thinking about labiaplasty should read. It is very informative and I want you to read it. Ok?
I am here if you want to talk, any time, so please reply. I want to help you.
Contributor’s Reply: “Thank you so much. I feel 100% better about how it looks. I’ve never actually shown anyone and asked what they thought about it, so I just always assumed it didn’t look ok. I am so much more confident now. :D”